People who think their life is over because their girlfriend/boyfriend broke up with them, there are only so many times that you can mutter ‘It does not hurt’ before it begins to hurt even more than the hurt you feel. You become enlightened of the feeling hurt, which is worse, I am certain, than the existent hurt; It doesn't mean you should reject yourself or that you should think of yourself as a lesser person. It doesn't mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Remember that only ONE person has rejected you at the moment, and it only hurt so much because to you, that person's opinion symbolized the opinion of the whole world; but don't be ashamed to weep; 'tis right to grieve. Tears are only water, and flowers, trees, and fruit cannot grow without water. A wounded heart will heal in time. Sometimes you need to say " I'm not crying because of you; you're not worth it and I don't need you. I'm crying because my delusion of who you were was shattered by the truth of who you are."