Love and be loved. But how?
One of the biggest needs a human being has is to share his world to someone else ...be understood & also hear more stories from others.
Some people, when thinking they are in love, forget about themselves. They tend to cancel all their true passions, interests, stories in order to be easier accepted by someone else, believing that this is the best way to make themselves useful, easy to approach and also giving.
They give the other person so much space to share ...until they end up having no space at all in that particular relationship.
We are not talking here about romantic relationship, but about friendships as well. Working relationships and even family. The lower as our level of confidence is, the harder it will be for us to understand that a relationship is really built on two worlds and two sides of the story.
Even if we, let's say, are in a relationship with a person that's very similar with us, we should always share what's on our mind and try not to agree all the time with what the other person is saying just to avoid hurting their feelings. We tend to do too much of what we, when alone, wouldn't do, so conflicts will surely appear one way or another.
It's not easy to accept that you have a problematic way of approaching something but as hard as it is to identify and accept it, the harder part comes just after. When you decide to try to love yourself, cherish what you really are interested in and finally share with others what your world really is about.
Only then you will actually give something to this Earth. ;)